Are you able to describe why you love a person?
Maybe you have to think about this question seriously, because if you can give reasons and explain the feeling, then something isn’t exactly right.
You may love someone because they help you and they have always been there for you.
You may love someone because they offer you protection and make you feel safe.
You may love someone because they treat you right, respect you and trust you.
You may love someone because they enjoy spending time with you and are always there when you want them to be.
But, being in love or loving someone with all your heart doesn’t need that kind of explanation. You just have a feeling that cannot be described in words, it’s like something is missing when they are not close to you.
Picture your life without the person you think you love, will it change dramatically, will you be able to survive or go on without them?
You may think you wouldn’t, but think about everything. If you wake up in the morning and they aren’t in bed close to you. If you have coffee and breakfast without them. If the entire working day passes and you don’t think about them. If you get home at night and they aren’t there for you. If you have dinner alone and don’t have anyone to talk to. If you go to bed without kissing anyone goodnight…
A lot of things change when you fall in and out of love, you just have to figure out a way to give everything to the right person, but we’ll talk about that some other time.